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Here are some additional resources to help you feel more connected in your relationship.
Connection Starters
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Take turns asking these questions each week.
1. What is something stressful that happened in your day?
2. Was there a moment in the week where you had wanted to tell me something but I wasn't there?
3. What is something that you appreciate about me and our relationship.
4. What are you excited about for our future?
5. If I could show you love today, what would I do for you?Â

 Questions to Prepare for Any Transition

5 Steps to Redistribute the Mental Load

Scripts for Difficult Conversations
Individual & Couple Coaching
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